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Ilias Nytrau
Apr 3rd, 2014, 07:25:57 PM
...but I need to do this. Sorry, my lovelies.

It's become apparent to me that I need to seriously cut back my commitment to RP (I write in two other places, you all know this!), as it is interfering with the rest of my life, and my ability to prioritize - I guess the concept of 'RL is more important' never really stuck. Added to that, my mental health has been suffering lately from the unyielding pressure of too many things on my plate. Lastly, I love you guys, but the fact is I've not really enjoyed writing here in a long time. It feels more like a chore than an enjoyable hobby, like an obligation instead of something I really want to do... but I've tried hanging on for the sake of all of you and our plans and the relationships between our characters and I've not done a very good job of it. I've been inconsistent, frequently absent, even avoidant.

I'm not certain if this is permanent. Knowing me, it might not be. But suffice to say... for the foreseeable future, I will not be writing here at 'Fans. I can still be found on AIM, Facebook, and so on. Primarily Skype, these days, for a huge hint. Please don't hesitate to ask me how I'm doing, because gods know I need the support. I need to be taking better care of myself.

Love, hugs, fluff, and stuff.

-Kaman

Zeke
Apr 3rd, 2014, 07:30:47 PM
YOU ARE GREAT

Sorry for falling off the earth with Zeke and Sindy, but I had to repurpose some life goals, too. I know that feel! I am always available if needed.

Wei Wu Wei
Apr 3rd, 2014, 07:36:43 PM
You'll manage. :-) Take it a bit at a time. We care about you!

Razielle Alastor
Apr 3rd, 2014, 07:47:16 PM
*hugs*

Do what you gotta do, babe. I'll follow you around and pester you wherever, you know that. <3

Lilaena De'Ville
Apr 3rd, 2014, 08:12:11 PM
All your characters will be inexplicably eaten by rancors in your absence.

best of luck sweetie, please take care of yourself and your family. :hug

Sirdi Kōhō
Apr 3rd, 2014, 08:42:32 PM
Wow, I get here and everybody leaves.

Shame to see you go.

Loklorien s'Ilancy
Apr 3rd, 2014, 11:17:08 PM
We'll be here, just take care of you and yours. If you're about in the future, I shall snag you on AIM and we can shoot the breeze :)

Cirrsseeto Quez
Apr 4th, 2014, 12:53:29 AM
jI'll wajit forr you ljike a stone, rrou'aiha :love

Satkia Beltrak
Apr 4th, 2014, 06:40:11 AM
*hugs* <3 <3

Zereth Lancer
Apr 4th, 2014, 12:11:36 PM
You'll be missed. Like, a lot.

Dasquian Belargic
Apr 5th, 2014, 02:38:28 AM
Take care

:wave

Droo
Apr 5th, 2014, 03:39:59 AM
I'm sorry to see you go, but you've got to get yourself right first and foremost, and in that, I wish you the very best. Take care of yourself, Kaman. Hope to see you around from time to time. :)

Morgan Evanar
Apr 7th, 2014, 08:49:09 PM
:(

Take care of yourself.

Megaera
Apr 9th, 2014, 02:53:01 PM
I've changed my mind. Denied. Come back at once. Leave the other place, we're better company here.