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Wyl Staedtler
Oct 21st, 2009, 03:43:36 AM
Hey guys.

So here's the deal; I've been dealing with some health problems for awhile now and as frustrating as it was, it wasn't anything that we couldn't handle. It still isn't, but we recently received information which has really proved to be overwhelming and forced us to take a step back and re-evaluate how we were treating the situation, both at home and medically.

First: I'm going to be okay. It's nothing immediately life threatening and it's so far from the worst it could be, something for which I am extremely grateful.
This has, however, taken a huge toll on us as a family and in an individual sense and I'm struggling right now with the emotional processing that comes with big changes like these. There's a great deal of uncertainty and worry floating about and paired with the stress of trying to take in mountains of information and decide on a plan of action, there's been a lot of unpleasantness the last few weeks.

Unfortunately, I just don't have the energy to deal with much beyond this right now. My roleplaying status isn't terribly active anyway, but to those people who I am in threads with, I'm so, so sorry, but I just need to step away for a while until everything settles down.

If the application goes through, next month I'll be checking in to a facility on the mainland that provides a lot of help and alternative therapies for stuff like this. We're hoping that it can help to provide a steady point from which we can recentre and progress from. It's a three-week retreat program and looks to be very dedicated to equipping people with the right skills to cope and thrive.

I'm hoping to be able to be back in December or thereabouts, RP-wise, but nothing is for sure. Right now I need to focus on my family. I'll be online some but not in a creative capacity.

Thank you so much for understanding and again, I'm so sorry. I'll miss you all like crazy!

Lots and lots and lots of love,

Liz

Pierce Tondry
Oct 21st, 2009, 05:21:18 AM
How can you go on hiatus when you're already on hiatus? (To borrow some of your words, I told you I would totes do this :))

So much love for you Liz. Take care of yourself, your hubby, and your family. We're all here for you.

PS You'll probably get that thing we talked about next week. I am adding just a little something to it.

PSS Through. The. Mattress.

PSSS Aloha nui!

Miranda Tarkin
Oct 21st, 2009, 05:40:04 AM
:hug

I know we've talked a little about what's going on and You know I'm praying for you. Love you Liz :glomp

Emelie Shadowstar
Oct 21st, 2009, 08:22:46 AM
:hug Take care, sweetie!

Kelly Perris
Oct 21st, 2009, 08:57:41 AM
Lots and lots and lots of love back at you, darling girl. I've been thinking of you lots and I'm here when you want to talk about anythin' and nothin'. But I think we're all here for ya, in any capacity we can. We all do what needs doing. This, your family, is that thing. It's always that thing and it should be.

Much hugs.

-Miriya

Mandy with an I
Oct 21st, 2009, 10:16:55 AM
You know we all love you and will allllllllllllllllllllllllways be here for you, bebe :hug

Dasquian Belargic
Oct 21st, 2009, 10:32:40 AM
:glomp you. You and your family have been in my thoughts.. lots of love, as always.

PS (I am stealing Brian's format) if you still want some company some time next year, just me know. I am always game for a spot of timezone defying, globetrotting... especially if there is giggling involved :)

Droo
Oct 21st, 2009, 10:49:21 AM
Take care of yourself, Liz. You and your family are in my thoughts.

Lilaena De'Ville
Oct 21st, 2009, 11:30:49 AM
Praying for you and your family, sweetie, for wisdom and health. :hug Love you and be safe!

Loklorien s'Ilancy
Oct 21st, 2009, 03:52:59 PM
There's not really all that much to say since everyone has already said how I feel. Get some rest, spend time with your family, and be safe :hug

Nya Halcyon
Oct 25th, 2009, 03:58:25 PM
Yes, I can only second that - you're in my thoughts :hug