How do you tell love at first sight vs crush?

[Itala Marzullo]

Most of us probably have the same experience when it comes to dating and meeting new people, but just how the hell do you tell these two apart? I'm talking to this girl:

http://i188.photobucket.com/albums/z81/giuliano81/535728_medium.jpg


I'm in love, damn it, but it's probably just a crush since I don't know her well yet.

[Hartus Kenobi]

At this stage it's definitely infatution. I don't believe in love at first sight. That doesn't mean you can't - in the future - develop true love towards her, and it shouldn't keep you from pursuing her. For me, I don't think you can love someone outside of your immediate family until you get to know as much as you can about the person, and that should take many months or maybe even years.

But yeah, that girl looks great. Good luck dude.

[Kelly Perris]

I'd do her.


Uhm... I mean....You go, Jules! *roots for the kitty-boy*

[Itala Marzullo]

Yeah, it's just a crush probably, cause I'm calming down now.

The last girl broke my heart bad enough for me not to have any illusions about anything.

[Itala Marzullo]

I'd do her.


Uhm... I mean....You go, Jules! *roots for the kitty-boy*

Aren't you a chick?

[Dasquian Belargic]

She's cute.

And as for the question... well, I'm not sure. I don't think I've ever been in love at first sight. Maybe lust at first sight. I'm more of a slow-burner.

[Kelly Perris]

I'd do her.


Uhm... I mean....You go, Jules! *roots for the kitty-boy*

Aren't you a chick?

What do YOU know?

I posted under a male persona for this specific purpose. Nyaaaaaah~

[Hartus Kenobi]

I'd do her.


Uhm... I mean....You go, Jules! *roots for the kitty-boy*

Aren't you a chick?

What do YOU know?

I posted under a male persona for this specific purpose. Nyaaaaaah~
OOoooh, this explains a lot. I always give your posts a weird look when you really stress the point that Kelly is a really "pretty flyboy" or something.

Now I understand :)

[Hartus Kenobi]

Yeah, it's just a crush probably, cause I'm calming down now.

The last girl broke my heart bad enough for me not to have any illusions about anything.

But before you do anything serious, just make sure you're not doing this any quicker than you normally would because you're in rebound-mode. It'll bite you in the butt later on, and it can ruin an otherwise potentially solid relationship.

[Itala Marzullo]

That actually sounds like good advice.

Hmm, Lust At First Sight...

[Alexia Marzullo]

So, how are things going with her? Don't leave us hanging!

[Itala Marzullo]

I'm not going to report until anything real happens, but don't get your hopes up.

[Itala Marzullo]

Hah, well she and i hung out enough times and I realized she is vain and too girly for me, all she talks about is shoes and losing weight.

Buuuut I met another girl yesterday and one thing led to another, Jules ain't single anymore. :D

Thank God I didn't hook up with the first one because this new one is much, much better. :D

Now I feel like singing "I feel pretty" :D:D:D

[Alexia Marzullo]

Wow, Yay Jules!!

You should sing "I feel pretty" :D

and when do we get a piccie?

[Itala Marzullo]

I need to take pics of us together when we go to Manhattan but here's a couple of her....

http://i188.photobucket.com/albums/z81/giuliano81/l_51f6bd59aa8e527b5120846a3086f9ae.jpg

http://i188.photobucket.com/albums/z81/giuliano81/l_79f19455d1ad338696b3262872168d6e.jpg

[Cronus Kosan]

Decide between crush and love after you have sex a couple times lol... Much more reliable that way ;)

[Marcus Marzullo]

Good idea, but I'm not sure that option is available to me right now. Besides, I'm not a cheater.